I guess I wouldn't involved myself in their issues however I would make it clear the options, which is technically my position conducting the transaction, and not let lies go without addressing them....Yes, you can wire and the safest way to go receiving money and if you get a check it, will be made out in both your names, either way a joint account or a joint check. You are not getting involved, but presenting the real facts, which is what you need to do. If you said nothing, and later it it addressed and done nothing, you could technically be a part of a bigger issue if she brings it up and you didn't address the situation and let it ride. |