I feel you need to get the jist of the status quo concerning this and many other notary boards. I can only think of a couple of other posts I done on this board but boy do I watch. You stated that this board has a clique. Truth be known it has a couple. That's just the way most place divy up. No matter what organization you join there will be those few that will become the "leaders" everyone else will follow. A while ago another poster tried to point out the hatefulness of a couple of members and the know it all hogs that feel the need to just say what comes to mind. She didn't cuss anyone, just made a few observations and bingo, she doesn't seem to be around anymore. She went against the clique I guess.
Another big truth is the outlandish rude and crudeness of a select few. You named Calinotary as a big offender. Truth is, I rather have Calinotary than Becca from Fl. If you'll (or anyone else) will do a search with just her name in the keywords area. You'll see that she, for the majority of her posts, is rude, hateful, brattish and just plain crude. She's a bully. I surmise this must be the only way to feed her low self-esteem. Why would anyone who seems to be such a professional stoop to such childish schoolyard behavior. Her mean streak is evident in 9 of every 10 posts. Here she's supposed to be this big experience professional. She acts like a brat who thinks she is doing the others a favor. Truth be known, her behavior makes the others look worse than they really are. Because they allow it. My question to any of them is "Do you want to be bullied?" Of course, they don't, yet they let her win. This overaged, self-important woman is allowed to behave worse than Nellie Olson of Little House on the Prairie fame! Not one of the regulars have the guts to call her on it. If they did, she'd have been put in her place long ago. I'm not saying I'm jumping on your Victoria Ring crusade, I'm not a VR fan. I am also not interested in making a notary board about religious argument. It doesn't belong here. However, I do enjoy reading the off topic jokes and antics of some of the posters. For the most, I'd enjoy attending a party with most of them. I think Calinotary would be the life of the party. These guys each have a personality trait that makes them stand out. It would help you to see that. BrendaTX was labeled Mother-know-it-all by someone. I agree with the label, but not in a derrogatory way. She's a fountain of information and usually willing to help out. You will recognize them as you get to know them. Charles is the conservative fatherly type. Charm is just a charm. I look forward to her weekly jokes. Beth is funny too. Teddog is always cheerful, too. There are others but names aren't coming to mind at the moment.
Get past the annoying and unprofessional and as for Becca, accept that she is the legend in her own mind and until someone sees fit to monitor her, she'll continue as always.
Hope today's a better day for you. |
| Messages in this Thread |
 |  For HereinSOCAL--long - JudyinLA on 2/3/06 1:34pm |
|  Re: For HereinSOCAL--I agree with most - Anonymous on 2/3/06 1:41pm |
|  Re: Anonymous don't forget - Anonymous on 2/3/06 1:45pm |
|  Re: Anonymous don't forget - Me2know on 2/3/06 1:47pm |
|  Re: Anonymous don't forget - Anonymous on 2/3/06 1:53pm |
| Re: Anonymous don't forget - CaliNotary on 2/3/06 4:25pm |
| Re: Anonymous don't forget - CaliNotary on 2/3/06 4:27pm |
| I Joined a group? -  Shane_OH on 2/3/06 4:10pm |
| You are one of US now Shane - get out your badge and - SLB SIGNING SERVICES, INC. - Sherry on 2/3/06 4:11pm |
|  Just Ordered - Shane_OH on 2/3/06 4:14pm |
|  Re: Just Ordered...Wow, we get jackets? - Beth/MD on 2/3/06 4:20pm |
|  Re: Just Ordered...Wow, we get jackets? - eXpedN_TX on 2/3/06 4:21pm |
| Re: I thought all we got was free biz cards. nm - CarolynCO on 2/3/06 4:30pm |
|  I think we need to raise the bar......heck us no it alls - SLB SIGNING SERVICES, INC. - Sherry on 2/3/06 4:31pm |
| Brenda and I want tiaras. Oh, I can't wait to get mine!.n/m - Becca_FL on 2/3/06 4:42pm |
| Re: Brenda and I want tiaras. Oh, I can't wait to get mine!.n/m - Beth/MD on 2/3/06 4:44pm |
| Re: Brenda and I want tiaras. that's your not you're...n/m - Beth/MD on 2/3/06 4:44pm |
| Tiaras and Cliques??? That's really serious. - BrendaTx on 2/3/06 8:54pm |
| Re: Brenda and I want tiaras. Oh, I can't wait to get mine!.n/m - CarolynCO on 2/3/06 5:01pm |
| Maybe an anon can carry the train - SLB SIGNING SERVICES, INC. - Sherry on 2/3/06 5:07pm |
|  Re: Maybe an anon can carry the train - hcampersFL on 2/4/06 12:31am |
| Re: For HereinSOCAL--I agree with most - Anonymous on 2/3/06 1:52pm |
| Re: For HereinSOCAL--I agree with most - Darla on 2/3/06 1:55pm |
| Re: For HereinSOCAL--I agree with most - Anonymous on 2/3/06 2:02pm |
| LOL anon... - Charm_AL on 2/3/06 2:07pm |
| Re: New little (!) group full of crybabies n/m - JO_PA on 2/3/06 1:54pm |
| Re: For Jo_PA - Darla on 2/3/06 1:57pm |
| Re: For everyone - Darla on 2/3/06 1:58pm |
| Re: For everyone - JudyinLA on 2/3/06 1:59pm |
| Tissue anyone?....n/m - Charm_AL on 2/3/06 2:01pm |
| Re: For everyone - JO_PA on 2/3/06 2:02pm |
| Re: For everyone - SarahBeth_CA on 2/3/06 2:02pm |
| Re: For everyone - BrendaTx on 2/4/06 2:49am |
| Re: For Jo_PA - JO_PA on 2/3/06 2:00pm |
| Dont know how got dragged into this..... - SLB SIGNING SERVICES, INC. - Sherry on 2/3/06 2:59pm |
| Forgot to mention...although I am not part of any "clique".. - SLB SIGNING SERVICES, INC. - Sherry on 2/3/06 3:02pm |
| Re: Forgot to mention...although I am not part of any "clique".. - CarolynCO on 2/3/06 3:03pm |
| Please dont boot me out......I wouldnt know what to do with - SLB SIGNING SERVICES, INC. - Sherry on 2/3/06 3:05pm |
| Re: Please dont boot me out......I wouldnt know what to do with - CarolynCO on 2/3/06 3:15pm |
| Re: For HereinSOCAL--long Judy.. - Charm_AL on 2/3/06 2:03pm |
| WAAaaaa...Sniff Sniff... - Jon_PA on 2/3/06 2:04pm |
| Re: For HereinSOCAL--long - Merry_CA on 2/3/06 2:20pm |
| Re: For HereinSOCAL--long - Anonymous on 2/3/06 2:45pm |
| Re: For HereinSOCAL--long - Merry_CA on 2/3/06 2:49pm |
| Dear, poor Judy... - Becca_FL on 2/3/06 4:02pm |
| Re: Dear, poor Judy... - Beth/MD on 2/3/06 4:13pm |
| Re: Beth - just a regular Peyton Place ... - CarolynCO on 2/3/06 4:26pm |
| How to cull the group... - PA_Notary_II on 2/3/06 4:52pm |
| Re: the great thing about OUR group - CarolynCO on 2/3/06 4:59pm |
| Reply to Judy in LA: For HereinSOCAL--long THANK YOU! - HereinSOCA on 2/4/06 2:51am |
| Anon derives from the Spanish word ano - Anonymous on 2/4/06 2:37pm |
| Re: Anon derives from the Spanish word ano - PAW_Fl on 2/4/06 3:05pm |
