Yes it bothered me as well, as you will see by the email i sent you.
I think that I was fair and responded to everyone that asked me a question. to be attacked by someone who I have had conversations (more than one) with and obviously she did not remember or did not care, and to be the way she was, I had about enough of it and made the very, very blatent "over the top" statement to prove a point. Rachelle never once bothered to email me if she had a problem but rather keep posting and acting as such. I never once bashed her but rather just responded and kept saying that I was talking to someone else. When you act as such, I believe that someone should "call" you on it and I did. To say "my child would "cheer" me on" has nothing to do with the age of a child (teenagers). It has to do with what you are taught and that she was willing to proclaim her actions and be proud of that and treat someone that way (me) after venting her sister was doing some of the same things she was just doing to me...I was done with that bashing and put a stop to it. If she deemed it okay to bash with her comments, she needs to also be ready for what reaction she gets back. That is a choice she made and she needs to accept that she had control of what response she got back, but she chose to not care.
I stand by what I said and when someone is out to sting you, I'm human and protect myself.
I take family and friends very seriously, but if those two groups are willing to "cut" you in the many ways they can, then there is no respect. And the word respect is much thicker than blood in my book. I will give it until it is disregarded towards me and there is nothing wrong with that. Rachelle disregarded it, I no longer have to give it.
I think that with the email that I sent you, you would understand that I could've been quite different with responses because the individuals posting really had no idea what they were dealing or talking about. enough said.
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