|I get this frequently, but I always tell them it's to protect you. When the time comes to sell, and you do not have a legal name to match the legal docs, it's going to be a bigger problem than now. Alls they have to do is probably add an AKA to it more than likely or do a Quit Claim Deed to match the name. She knows and you know you can only notarize her legal DL name. She probably bullied her way through the past times, but it stopped with you.|
She can complain all she wants, but you are the one that is doing your job to protect her. 10 people can take the easy way, you take the right way, and is quite fixable. Her LO or title should have caught this, she can blame them, and THANK you!
I always call from the table and tell them the situation, then your hands are clean later on when they complain.