Cali,
I've never wasted the energy it takes to get my feelings hurt by anything that is posted on this board and I would give the best of 'em a run for their money with the thick skin. My point was just that there are better, more professional ways to go about responding to someone's post. There are times when it's appropriate to respond and times when it's best just to skip it and move on. In my opinion, integrity still holds a lot of weight and if I owned my own signing service or, better yet, mortgage company, I would take into account the actions of the posters to this board in making decisions about who I would use and who I wouldn't (even though I probably wouldn't waste my time reading this board if I owned my own company). 
I have nothing against anybody here personally. I actually think you, for one, have had some really good advice to give and I have no doubt you know your business inside and out. I just think, if we're all adults here, it would be nice if we all acted like it. I don't understand why you bother to waste your time in posting some of the negative, sometimes hurtful (to the "asker") stuff here. I just thought it would be more professional and resourceful to try a little diplomacy. I know that nothing I say will make a difference, just speaking my mind...once again.
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