I can't believe the advice that I'm reading in here. She's not asking if she should ask him to move in, she's asking if she should try to go out with him. Am I the only one who's seen "Legally Blonde"?
If Gina doesn't know much about this guy, what better way to find out more than over a cup of coffee or dinner, if he's willing? I wouldn't automatically assume that he's a major player just because he's handsome and flirtatious, nor would I assume that there was something wrong with him just because he happens to be single. It very well could be true, but it could also mean that he's flirting because he likes her, but doesn't think it's appropriate to ask out his customers. The only way to find out is to ask and see if he's interested and/or available.
It's a tough dating world out there. You can't just sit around and wait for Mr. or Mrs. right to fall into your lap, you have to take some initiative. And in a perfect world the man would do all the courting, but it's not a perfect world, nor is it 1900 anymore. That attitude can lead to a lot nights spent alone.
And remember, Jennifer Coolidge got the hot UPS guy in "Legally Blonde". Bend and snap Gina! |
| Messages in this Thread |
|  Okay, this is definitely o/t but it's relevant, sort of - Anonymous on 2/2/06 3:49pm |
|  Re: Okay, this is definitely o/t but it's relevant, sort of - Patrick Anthony on 2/2/06 3:52pm |
|  Re: Okay, this is definitely o/t but it's relevant, sort of - Kydocrunner on 2/2/06 3:58pm |
|  Re: Okay, this is definitely o/t but it's relevant, sort of - Bonnie_CO on 2/2/06 4:00pm |
|  Re: Okay, this is definitely o/t but it's relevant, sort of - CarolynCO on 2/2/06 4:02pm |
| Re: Okay, this is definitely o/t but it's relevant, sort of -  Charles_Ca on 2/2/06 3:57pm |
| Go for it but make sure he is single first lol n/m - srnotary_CA on 2/2/06 3:58pm |
| Re: Go for it but make sure he is single first lol n/m - CarolynCO on 2/2/06 3:59pm |
| Re: Go for it but make sure he is single first lol n/m - eXpedN_TX on 2/2/06 4:09pm |
| Re: Okay, Charles - Gina on 2/2/06 4:46pm |
| Info about Trolls - eXpedN_TX on 2/2/06 4:53pm |
| Re: Info about Trolls, I guess I am one... - Charles_Ca on 2/2/06 5:12pm |
| OK Gina! Defeating? Whatever! I'm glad you're so easily - Charles_Ca on 2/2/06 5:00pm |
| Re: Okay, this is definitely... Irrelevant - Move to Strike - BrendaTx on 2/2/06 4:54pm |
| Re: Okay, this is definitely... Irrelevant - Move to Strike - Charm_AL on 2/2/06 5:03pm |
| Re: Wow, head off to do a quick signing only to - Beth/MD on 2/2/06 5:18pm |
| Re: Brenda - Gina on 2/2/06 5:29pm |
| Re: Brenda - BrendaTx on 2/2/06 6:19pm |
| Re: Charles, good advice. - Beth/MD on 2/2/06 5:22pm |
| Re: Charles, good advice. - Charles_Ca on 2/2/06 5:30pm |
| Re: Charles, good advice. - Beth/MD on 2/2/06 5:33pm |
|  Beth/MD... - srnotary_CA on 2/3/06 9:21am |
| Jeez Charles - CaliNotary on 2/2/06 6:54pm |
| Okay, that's just plain scary... - MichiganAl on 2/2/06 8:39pm |
| Oh Al, not quite....so sorry...no love connection here...n/m - Becca_FL on 2/2/06 8:43pm |
| Not so fast Becca - CaliNotary on 2/2/06 9:02pm |
|  I'll take a beer, I love all men..............n/m - Becca_FL on 2/2/06 9:17pm |
| Re: Oh Al, not quite....so sorry...no love connection here...n/m - MichiganAl on 2/2/06 9:41pm |
| Geez Charles... - MichiganAl on 2/2/06 8:35pm |
| Re: Okay, this is definitely o/t but it's relevant, sort of - BetsyMI on 2/2/06 5:27pm |
| Re: Okay, this is definitely o/t but it's relevant, sort of - Gina on 2/2/06 5:31pm |
| Re: Okay, this is definitely o/t but it's relevant, sort of - BetsyMI on 2/2/06 5:35pm |
| Re: Don't they have golf cources in LA?? nm - CarolynCO on 2/2/06 6:03pm |
| Re: Don't they have golf cources in LA?? nm - BrendaTx on 2/2/06 7:04pm |
| Re: Don't they have golf *courses* in LA?? nm - CarolynCO on 2/2/06 7:18pm |
| Re: Okay, this is definitely o/t but it's relevant, sort of - CarolynCO on 2/2/06 6:01pm |
 | I guess I'm the voice of dissent here - CaliNotary on 2/2/06 7:09pm |
| CaliNotary "Git out there & rope one of them doggies"lol nm - Teddog_CO on 2/2/06 7:14pm |
| Re: CaliNotary "Git out there & rope one of them doggies"lol - CaliNotary on 2/2/06 7:16pm |
| lol It's a tough world out there! nm - Teddog_CO on 2/2/06 7:23pm |
| Re: CaliNotary "Git out there & rope one of them doggies"lol - JanetK_CA on 2/2/06 7:44pm |
| JanetK_CA - Teddog_CO on 2/2/06 8:12pm |
| Re: All of the great responses. - LilyMD on 2/2/06 8:50pm |
|  Re: forgot to say this is what Gina should say. Kinda blew - LilyMD on 2/2/06 8:51pm |
|  Re: forgot to say this is what Gina should say. Kinda blew - Anonymous on 2/2/06 8:54pm |
|  Re: forgot to say this is what Gina should say. Kinda blew - Anonymous on 2/2/06 8:56pm |
| Re: I guess I'm the voice of dissent here - BrendaTx on 2/3/06 10:55am |
| Geez, you go out for a drink on ladies night and miss this? - Becca_FL on 2/2/06 8:50pm |
| Agreed, Becca. I should have skipped last night... - TitleGalCA on 2/2/06 9:58pm |
| Anon, are you pretty & witty enough to attract this hottie? - curiousminds on 2/2/06 9:53pm |
| Re: Okay, this is definitely o/t but it's relevant, sort of - Rick_NY on 2/2/06 11:05pm |
| Call Dr Laura, she will know what you should do, ha ha! - O/Cnotary on 2/2/06 11:53pm |
