That is exactly the reason why the NR set us up to use an alias name when posting opinions on the forum if we chose to use it, not to mix any professional with any personal opinions. If everyone was afraid to speak up, defend or ask tough questions we would be a forum of milk toast like the other ones out there NOBODY visits who has experience. The ONLY reason this forum is the #1 notary forum out there is that most of us have the wisdom, the knowledge, and experience to handle the tougher questions, and are not afraid to speak up. If you take away the anonymity of allowing posters the freedom to speak their minds for fear of retribution, then no sense in ever posting. We can be like the rest of them out there, right? B o r i n g and asking the same routine of b o r i n g questions.
Why are SS owners, calling you? You have nothing to do with this thread nor work for NR, and are just a notary like the rest of us. Gossip? That is really unprofessional coming from owners of SS's talking to another notary about this forum and gossiping about the members. In all my time that has never happened to me, even when working in title, that type of thing was never discussed with anyone. Truth is, those SS's contacting you would not be on my list of companies I would choose to do business with anyway, so nothing is lost. I get the notaries on here, there are groups that cannot resist, means nothing really, let the phone ring off the hook. As they say, "Don't worry about people who talk behind your back, it just means you are two steps ahead of them"...unknown author and so it is.
My work ethic, integrity, and my experience speak volumes for those I have working relationships with. I'd just preferred not to have my political views or this confrontation with Matt Miller posted forever associated with my name vs my screen name. I am always careful NOT to mention real names of people that are not in their screen names because we all have a right to privacy no matter how much we dislike or disagree with a person.
Will I stay here? Will I leave here? Who knows the future.
I am a private person...you won't find me on social media, at the clubs or sucking up to anyone at any local events for attention...not my style. Many of you know Luckdog for years and years and had no idea until recently of just who I was, male or female, or looked like, and tried my best to keep it that way.
Unfortunately, that liberty of posting under my screen name was taken away from me by no choice of my own out of retaliation. Low blow. For those of you left out there with your screen name, it's a warning never ever let it be found.
I prefer the solitary life, be the best at closing loans I can be and I am good at it. I don't mind NR confrontation when needed to weed out hidden agendas, conflicting stories, fabrications, and exaggerations to influence others. Just how I am and always have been. See what happens...
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