Every day I feel less and less inclined to help someone new. The attitude and lack of gratitude just floors me. In any business that I've ever been a part of, I've always looked at those with more knowledge and experience and tried to glean as much as possible from them. Good advice, bad advice, even if it wasn't what I wanted to hear (and it usually wasn't). I showed respect, I asked informed questions (not lazy questions), and I put my nose to the grindstone. I don't see any of that here. I didn't whine, I didn't cry, I didn't argue. All of it was valuable to me. Most of these newbie are as soft as new born chicks. It's pathetic. They have no business acumen what so ever. Some of us have been extremely successful and would love to pass it on. But why bother when you're dealing with people like this every freaking day. Sometimes I feel bad that 99 out of 100 will fail at this, especially in oversaturated places like SoCal. Other times, like now, I just feel like they deserve it. |
Messages in this Thread |
| Message from a "Newbie"! - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 12:21am |
| Re: Message from a "Newbie"! - CaliNotary on 2/3/06 12:41am |
| CaliNotary: The Very Example of Rudeness! - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 1:02am |
| You are always courteous??? - MichiganAl on 2/3/06 2:06am |
| Reply to Michigan Al You are always courteous??? - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 4:02am |
| Re: Reply to Michigan Al You are always courteous??? - MichiganAl on 2/3/06 9:32am |
| I'm impressed Al - CaliNotary on 2/3/06 12:51pm |
| Re: I second that suggestion! nm - CarolynCO on 2/3/06 12:06pm |
| Right to choose ... - PAW_Fl on 2/3/06 8:53am |
| Reply To "PAW" - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 10:37am |
| Re: Reply To "PAW" - Charm_AL on 2/3/06 10:59am |
| Re: Victoria Ring *CAN* defend herself on this board. nm - CarolynCO on 2/3/06 12:08pm |
| Re Cali - Dorothy_MI on 2/3/06 10:35am |
| Newbie... - Becca_FL on 2/3/06 12:51am |
| Yet, Another Example! - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 1:07am |
| Hey, HereinSOCA, read the thread starting with - Glenn Strickler on 2/3/06 1:47am |
| Glenn, a very reasonable response...but - MichiganAl on 2/3/06 2:28am |
| Respect, Respect & Respect! - Nd_WA on 2/3/06 3:46am |
| Reply to: Nd_WA Respect, Respect & Respect! - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 4:14am |
| Reply To: Michigan Al - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 4:00am |
| You were not verbally attacked... - Shane_OH on 2/3/06 7:14am |
| Reply to Glenn Strickler - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 3:50am |
| To HereinSOCA - SLP_VA on 2/3/06 5:37am |
| Re: To HereinSOCA - Anonymous on 2/3/06 7:06am |
| Re: To HereinSOCA Very well said anon - Anonymous on 2/3/06 9:42am |
| To: Anonymous HereinSOCA Very well said anon - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 10:56am |
| To SLP_VA Thank You! - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 9:24am |
| Speaking of disrespect... - PAW_Fl on 2/3/06 9:02am |
| To PAW Again Re: Speaking of disrespect... - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 11:08am |
| Re: To PAW Again Re: Speaking of disrespect... - PAW_Fl on 2/3/06 12:52pm |
| Re: Herein, you are *always* courteous. NOT. nm - CarolynCO on 2/3/06 12:10pm |
| I respect your opinion... - Shane_OH on 2/3/06 7:11am |
| Re: I respect your opinion... - Anonymous on 2/3/06 7:24am |
| Re: I respect your opinion... - Shane_OH on 2/3/06 7:34am |
| to: Anonymous Thank You! Re: I respect your opinion... - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 10:46am |
| Enough's enough! - MistarellaFL on 2/3/06 11:27am |
| Re: Enough's enough! - Thank you Mistarella for that - BrendaTx on 2/3/06 12:42pm |
| Hey, "Here"! - Dennis D Broadbooks on 2/3/06 7:42am |
| Jersey Boy's 2 cents... - Jersey_Boy on 2/3/06 9:07am |
| Amen to that, Jersey_Boy! BTW...when's the next survery?n/m - Cindy Dorman on 2/3/06 9:21am |
| reply to: Re: Jersey Boy's 2 cents... - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 10:19am |
| Re: reply to: Re: Jersey Boy's 2 cents... - Jersey_Boy on 2/3/06 11:06am |
| Dennis Thank You! - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 9:22am |
| Read, respond, enjoy and learn from the board... - MT_CA on 2/3/06 10:21am |
| Re: Read, respond, enjoy and learn from the board... - Anonymous on 2/3/06 11:48am |
| Re: Read, respond, enjoy and learn from the board... - SarahBeth_CA on 2/3/06 12:30pm |
| SaraBeth_CA Thank You! - HereinSOCA on 2/3/06 2:12pm |
| Re: SaraBeth_CA Thank You! - SarahBeth_CA on 2/3/06 2:21pm |