|*I guess Charm doesn't want to show her site. Too bad.*
Real southern ladies don't usually show their sites...to them, it's kind of like letting a man other than your husband see your unmentionables hanging on the clothesline.
I show my site, but I am not a southern lady...I am Texas lady...I will show my site, but not my unmentionables. I am sure this will make perfect sense if you think it over.