No . . . she told me. I think he was embarrassed that she did because it made him look like a dork for scolding her for asking questions and trying to rush her through the closing. They have four children, were late for the closing because they were each picking up children at different sporting events, and he was trying to speed the closing along so they could get back out to pick up their other two children. Their life was very fast paced and all of it was making her have a panic attack at the table. Luckily I knew what to do to help her not only get through her closing, but get through her panic attack with ease. Just because a husband is a dork, doesn't make him an abuser. She is definitely not a victim of domestic abuse . . . she just has too much stuff going on and suffers from anxiety and panic attacks and her husband doesn't understand what they are. They need a nice relaxing vacation together.
But . . . that has nothing to do with what I was trying to say . . . you kind of went off topic there and turned it into someone who is a victim of domestic abuse which is clearly not the case. My point is that kindness matters regardless of whether someone is suffering from depression, anxiety, cancer, or nothing. We should all be kind to everyone. |