diversification is the key for weathering storms. It may not be pleasant or fun to decide that you must alter your plans, but I can certainly see this scenario is bringing no joy at all into your life. This downward spiral is disheartening to all and I'm saddened to see that this is happening to you as well.
You're a strong, independent-minded business owner who knows how to take care of business as a professional. Sometimes when you're presented with a crossroads in your business plan/career, there's a reason for it presenting in your life at this point in time.
Creatively, if I may, I'd like to make a suggestion please. Mentally gather all the negativity of it, wrap it up in a bundle, put it into an imaginary box, tie a bow around it, then mentally set it aside, toss it out the window, do whatever to it as per your heart's desire . . . Find a quiet, peaceful location with pen and paper at the ready. Light a white candle, muster up your most courageous mindset while mentally concentrating on your future. Be receptive to the thoughts that bubble up to the surface. Write down whatever comes to mind. You may surprise yourself with what you see yourself write on the paper. Offer no resistance to any concepts/ideas. Simply let them ebulliently flow forth . . . You may find this a bit unnerving initially then quite cathartic as well as enlightening.
P.S. As I was composing this for you, Marilynn, a particular thought/concept repeatedly came to mind specifically for your situation (sent you a PM).
Best wishes for success, happiness, & joy moving forward on a path of your own creation, Marilynn! |
Messages in this Thread |
| The impact of algorithims on our business. I had a very - MW/VA on 12/10/16 10:11am |
| Everyone paid the same? - Christine/OK on 12/10/16 11:12am |
| I agree, this is the biggest bunch of malarkey ... - BearPaw/CO on 12/10/16 11:27am |
| Re: The impact of algorithims on our business. I had a very - Yoli/CA on 12/10/16 1:37pm |
| Neither have I. My business model will not allow me to - Alz on 12/10/16 2:01pm |
| They wouldn't like my answer to that Faulty line - NVLSlady/VA on 12/10/16 4:26pm |
| My thoughts too NVLS.. - Linda_H/FL on 12/10/16 5:32pm |
| ["be prepared to pay for EVERY line item and value added - NVLSlady/VA on 12/10/16 6:45pm |
| I completely agree. I don't like having to compromise my - MW/VA on 12/10/16 7:58pm |
| What is your limit? How low will you go? - Belinda/CA on 12/10/16 8:35pm |
| Considering their deed, etc, is not worth the paper - Belinda/CA on 12/10/16 10:40pm |
| Re: Considering their deed, etc, is not worth the paper - JanetK_CA on 12/11/16 12:16am |
| That's incorrect, Belinda - LKT/CA on 12/11/16 9:18am |
| People get the essence of my statement I do believe. n/m - Belinda/CA on 12/12/16 11:02am |
| We've briefly discussed this topic in the past, Marilynn, & - Christine/OK on 12/11/16 2:37am |
| so enlightened! love your suggestions. - sigtogo/OR on 12/11/16 12:38pm |
| algorithms have nothing to do with lowered fees.... - C. Rivera Chicago Notary Services on 12/11/16 6:39am |
| "many in this profession are so set in their archaic ways of - MW/VA on 12/11/16 8:26am |
| Re: "many in this profession are so set in their archaic ways of - C. Rivera Chicago Notary Services on 12/12/16 5:33am |
| Re: algorithms have nothing to do with lowered fees.... - SteveS/CA on 12/11/16 10:57am |
| Re: algorithms have nothing to do with lowered fees.... - JanetK_CA on 12/13/16 5:05pm |
| Re: The impact of algorithims on our business. I had a very - Cheryl Elliott on 12/11/16 8:41am |
| Exactly, Cheryl. It's a real blessing for those of you who - MW/VA on 12/11/16 8:52am |
| Re: Exactly, Cheryl. It - LKT/CA on 12/11/16 9:29am |
| Re: Exactly, Cheryl. It - SteveS/CA on 12/11/16 11:02am |
| If by "anyone," you mean *you*, Steve ... - BearPaw/CO on 12/11/16 11:59am |
| Yep, what Bearpaw said - LKT/CA on 12/11/16 3:28pm |
| Real Estate Meetings - Linda_in_IN on 12/11/16 2:41pm |
| I am an INDEPENDENT contractor. I set my own fee.... - BobbiCT on 12/12/16 7:51am |
| Re: I am an INDEPENDENT contractor. I set my own fee.... - SteveS/CA on 12/12/16 8:46am |
| I do...when you have marketed direct and *most* of your - ananotary on 12/12/16 11:48am |
| I would Challenge the idea that fee reductions and - NVLSlady/VA on 12/12/16 2:11pm |
| I am challenging this kind of thinking. I really don't care - MW/VA on 12/12/16 5:54pm |
| Or that use the equip at spouse's ofc for printing, etc. : ( n/m - Christine/OK on 12/13/16 6:44am |